Re: No joy in my life
My counsellor a while back asked me about the joy in my life. She is right that there is no joy in my life whatever I have or do nothing makes me feel happy.
I think lots of us will relate to this. And yes, negative thinking plays a big part in how we view both ourselves and the world around us.
I spend most of my time 'imprisoned' within my safe zone, home. It is counterproductive and zaps you of confidence, motivation and energy. CBT did help me to a point but that was mainly for my anxiety and panic, we only touched on the depressive issue as this did not develop in me until I was near to the end of my therapy sessions.
One thing I did get from it though was to make a list of things you want to do or could do that would give you some joy or something to look forward to, like with a goal or a treat at the end of it. I have used this method a few times and it definitely helps. The hardest part is keeping it up and having the motivation to do it in the first place.
The only other thing you can do is try not to look forward, just take each day as it comes and tell yourself you will do one small thing that pleases you each day or helps to sort out the things that you need to address. Worry time...you set aside a small amount of time to worry about the things that you have to face and what ever you can't deal with, leave for tomorrows worry time and try again. I know this is easier said than done, but still, maybe worth a try?
I hope you can find a positive way forward. Kitti
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