hi all hope your all doing well,
hi i have agarphobia and severe anxiety mild depression i can however go about quater or less from my home on a good day and ive been like this for the last 10 years but its a family question really the question is am i a mug/doormat?
my mum has had numerous prblems with her knees hip etc cause shes 82 and she lives around the corner from me i always try to get there 2-3times a week on a night when its quieter but this is still a massive struggle for me and i go and support her tell her everythings ok and she will walk again soon if she rests and be patient the amount of support and encouragement i give her to make her feel better, and she knows about my problems ag/anxiety etc and not once does she say your doing really well coming here and hopefully you will make more progress if you stick with it you know genaral things support like i give her but all she seems todo is take take take all my energy but what can i do shes my mam i get nothing from her not 1 ounce of support of encouragement and yet she expects it from me ,
its emotionally draining for me and wearing me down;(,
anyways thnx for your time and any advice would be most appreciated thnx .