Hello everyone,
Today is meant to be my final day off before I attempt another return to work. I write that opening sentence without any conviction because my morning anxiety has sharply increased over the weekend so that, since Friday, I've woken up each day with a tight chest and unsettled bowels, and I've felt utterly exhausted (big yawns!) despite decent-length sleeps.
Having said that, the weekend was not without some success, and my anxiety tended to improve as the day wore on. On Saturday, I got first and second in the Epsom Derby, then celebrated by meeting friends in Leazes Park for the Newcastle Green Festival. And, on Sunday, I had a nice roast dinner with mum then, a bit later, watched the football with dad :football:
It feels to me, though, as if that was the easy part and this coming week promises to be much tougher. For a start, I've agreed to go back on a 9-3 basis but I feel this is too much at this stage, and would prefer just to work four hours per day (9-1, 10-2). I need to discuss this as soon as I go in - if I go in as, at the moment, I'm struggling to see me even be able to get through this as the physical symptoms seem so debilitating
Then, on Saturday, myself and three friends intend to go to Blackpool for the day (staying over one night). This should be an enjoyable occasion but I've already messed up this year by having panic attacks on previous trips to Norwich in January and Dublin in March. Finally, a week on Thursday, I'm away from home for two-and-a-half weeks on my main holiday for the year with that same group of friends.
I agreed to return to work before my holiday because, without doing so, the department's procedures pointed out that I may lose my job - however, I accept that I am attempting a return when I'm not 100% and, perhaps worst of all, I've not told my GP about this latest attempt as I know he would not sanction it. I strongly doubt myself that I am returning to work for the right reasons... I just hope that, as I have been able to do the job to an effective standard previously, I can return to that standard.
Meanwhile, I am trying to improve at being mindful but staying in the moment is so difficult when the physical symptoms are already there (as soon as I wake up), and I regularly find that I am getting lost in mind chatter.
Apologies again for the long post - but I suppose I am garrulous in my nature. Thanks again for reading,
Peter xx