Having had agoraphobia for over 25 years..to varying degrees... I have not been able to work.
When my children were small, I found it easier to use child care as an 'excuse' when people asked me where, or if I 'worked'.
Everyone I knew worked and had children too.
Now my kids are in there twenties and I'm still getting asked if/where I work.
It makes me feel worthless p, cos I would love to have a job and be productive and 'normal' and be able to talk to fellow workers etc and just have a life!!!!!!
I honesty don't know ANYONE.who doesn't work.
I was at a party yest, and the same question from someone in front of about 10 working women my own age. Do you work?
My reply.....No.
Silence
Long pause
No comments from anyone.
I get so angry at myself
I used to try to make light of it by saying
No I don't work...I'm a lady of leisure and a wee laugh etc
But now part of me doesn't want to have to make excuses for myself
People will think what they think.
I DO think in general people think it is bad that I don't work
I DO.
But I DO NOT chose to tell anyone, especially people I don't know really well about my agoraphobia and panic attacks as the reason I DON'T WORK!!!
Can anyone tell me ANY comments or reasons that sound plausible to others why someone might not work.