Re: Your children living with a anxious parent...
Ooh tough one, just replying to boost it up the page. Will ask my daughter! (Now a Psychologist - I wonder why??)
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She says, "How old are they?" She says she would be open and explain that how you are isn't optimal but that not everybody has to act this way.
For me I decided when I gave birth to a tomboy that I had to fake it til I made it. I used to watch her climbing with my heart in my mouth but all I ever said was, "Be careful with that bit Sweetheart!" And I made sure I kept my tone of voice as light as I could. I worried loads but I had an inner dialogue going all the time about how I mustn't be OTT. I used to hold my tongue a LOT (as Holly says, "You never said, 'Oh don't go to Italy it's dangerous!' etc.")
It's great you are so aware. I was too and my kids have grown up fine. I was open with them about being anxious and they used to help me not to be. I think in terms of them 'worrying you are ill' - remember, they aren't anxious like you are. You ARE their norm. But you have a great opportunity to bring them up aware of, and accepting of, mental health issues.
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