Re: Infertility help plz
Hi
We have been trying to conceive 3 years, had all the tests done, and tried 7 cycles of Clomid we thought hubbys swimmers weren't great, we went to our iui referral and turns out hubbys not that bad and it can happen naturally!
We have been put on the NHS waiting list for IVF next year,
Over here in England we have counseling before IVF, I think it is very needed, as there have been times over the last 3 year's when I've been so heart broken, when you think youve tried for 41 cycles and never fallen pregnant you see why you feel down, and why you have to work at your relationship
The medicine in your IVF treatment messes with your hormones so go easy on yourself
Also the financial cost?
It's normal to feel the way you do, and I don't know how you cope, because it is a rollercoaster of emotion and never been sucessful you end up living in wait, wondering when you'll be pregnant,
I advise you to talk to a therapist, if you cant to maybes a girlfriend to get everything over the last few years off your chest, sometimes talking to your partner can be difficult as they are hurting too,
Im sorry your first IVF failed,
Don't give up, you've come so far
Xx
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