Re: Agoraphobia or Social Anxiety?
Hi Azalea, sorry to hear your feeling this way. I have to say reading that it seems that it may be more than one thing. Obviously we don't know you but I would say it sounds like your traumatic event caused the panic attacks/disorder and that in turn caused some social fears (having an attack in public) which has lead to the agoraphobia and not wanting to leave the house. I think then this has fueled the social anxiety even more as when you hide away it becomes more and more difficult to face and speak to people.
I have social anxiety which has lead to panic, phobias and agoraphobia. I believe that many things can go hand in hand and one problem lead to another, which is awful having not only one thing to deal with but more.
Having had social anxiety since being 12/13 I can say that hiding from visitors (even family) and not wanting to answer the door, go out and make phone calls are all tell tail signs of SA. I can sometimes go out with my mum but never on my own, I just don't have the confidence or independance to be able to do that, which is another tell tale sign in my opinion.
I hated answering the door, I would literally run and hide from people, friends, family, delivery people, postman, anyone and everyone. I still do to some extent. It's awful. I don't want to worry you but the longer you let it go on the worse it will get. This happened to me and I lost all my friends, I can't even visit family.
But please don't panic, for me I strongly believe I have this due to family links/chemical imbalance etc. From what you say yours seems to be triggered from a specific event, which you can most definitely make a full recovery from as you know what has triggerd it so that's a great starting point.
Have you spoken with your GP about it or are you getting any help? If not I think it sounds like you would be a good candidate for therapy, they would probably recommend CBT.
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