Hi, I've read loads of posts within the forum and decided to bite the bullet and post something myself.
I'm a reluctant facebook user. My home town has it's own 'spotted' page. For those who are unfamiliar 'spotted' is a page in which people take pictures of people (usually strangers) and post them on facebook for other people to comment on.
I think these pages are horrible and mean spirited. Recently a picture of a woman appeared and everyone was calling her fat, ugly and sickening.
I was out earlier this evening and I am now really worried someone will post a picture of me on there. I'm an overweight person and had just finished work so any picture of me would be less than flattering.
I know that I cannot mentally cope with receiving such hurtful and hate filled comments and so I'm really panicking that someone has snapped a picture of me and is sending it into the spotted page.
I discovered the page a few weeks ago and now I am worried whenever I leave the house, I feel like there are thousands of people just waiting to humiliate me.
My partner says I cannot live this way and should stop worrying all the time, I know he is trying to help but it really just makes me feel worse, like I'm dragging him down with me.
I want to delete my facebook account but at the moment I feel like a prisoner and that obsessively checking the spotted page is the only control I have.
The worst part of the spotted thing is that anyone who speaks up against it is instantly bombarded with messages from total strangers calling them everything under the sun. And of course telling them they have no sense of humour. Call me boring if you like but I don’t want my picture appearing on the internet so people can rip me to shreds, it’s just cruel.
Does anyone else worry about this? Or perhaps some advice?
Many thanks