Fishmanpa

[skippy66]

Anyone reading this who is suffering from health anxiety should go and read the posts of Fishmanpa. His is an inspirational story, and should put some of your own worries into perspective. I don't think he suffers from health anxiety as we all do/did, so his angle is usually much more rational.

Worth a read.

[Andria24]

Skippy I've never known anyone quite like him. He is, without ever having met him, a singularly awesome individual. Upbeat, generous and yes - inspirational.

If ever he makes his way across the pond there's a warm welcome awaiting him at my home.

Oh ... and did you know that he's pregnant. He visited Dr Google just yesterday. Knowing how right the good doctor is, it's confirmed ...

[Fishmanpa]

Awwww... thanks Glad I can be of assistance. I suggest you take note and read Skippy's Andria's, Brunette's, Nicola's and a few others (forgive me if i don't name you all) posts as well. They've taken steps to beat the beast. Inspirational and rational as well!


And so you know. No, I don't suffer from HA or anxiety. I have health issues and recently battled Head and Neck cancer (oral cancer). I participate in a couple of cancer forums and there are/were several posters that obviously suffer with HA/anxiety posting there. As the forum responded, I became interested in HA and came here to learn more about this malady. It's helped me greatly to understand the illness. You see, when I was going through the diagnostic process, I prayed to get a negative result. You would think that anyone truly faced with a diagnosis of any serious illness would jump for joy and move on with their lives when they were told everything is fine. Not so with HA. Thus I'm here to learn and have stayed to offer my perspective.

Please forgive me in advance for my candor but I pull no punches. As I've battled the beast called cancer, had two heart attacks, etc., so must you battle your beast called anxiety. It's no different in that it will take your life. The difference is my beast can bury me, your beast does that above ground. Don't let it take your life. It's too short not to be enjoying it

[Brunette]

Thanks for the namecheck Fishmanpa, the observations in your last paragraph are spot on

I hope this will also put things into perspective:

This morning I went for follow-up screening after a mammogram. I was anxious, yes, any person would be as you have no idea why they want to see you again. I had another mammogram and then saw the doctor who gave me an ultrasound, said that there were a few small cysts but otherwise nothing to worry about and basically, "see you again in three years."

Now this is what it's like when you don't have health anxiety - you don't want to be a "patient" for 5 minutes more than you need to be. You've faced the worry and want to be done with it. You want to be out of the door as quickly as you can and get on with your life. You don't start worrying that they missed something hours after being discharged.

The bottom line is that you need to just trust the professionals. These people specialise in what they do. They see hundreds of patients every year, they know what cancer (and every other disease) looks like and what it doesn't look like and have all the latest equipment to help them find it if it's there.

Mistakes are rare - and getting rarer as systems become more sophisticated (both in diagnostics and record keeping) and as various screening programmes become more widespread and sophisticated.

It's a great time to be alive - especially if you are in the UK and lucky to be able take advantage of the NHS - so get on with it, enjoy it, and quit worrying.

[Rennie1989]

Kudos to Fishmanpa

[katesa]

Indeed skippy. Fishmanpa is the don!

It was posts by him and actually yourself that gave me the push to stop thinking about getting help and actually do it already (and Brunette and CP gave me another little prod, or kick in the ass if you like, when I wavered)

[nomorepanic]

I love your posts fishmanpa and thanks for the mention too.

I hope you stay with us for the foreseeable future as I am sure you are helping loads of people on here.

[cpe1978]

Without wanting to inflate Fishmanpa's ego - I have to agree with everything that people say here.

The problem with Internet forums is that they attract negativity - understandably as the people who don't need help don't usually spend their days hanging around on Internet forums. The negativity breeds negativity and instead of being a place of reassurance and mutual support they can, in effect become a source of negative counselling.

The way to counteract that is to have people like those listed in this thread. That is what keeps this forum supportive and useful and we should do everything we can to persuade the people who have recovered, if they feel able, to hang around.

[skippy66]

I love your posts fishmanpa and thanks for the mention too.

I hope you stay with us for the foreseeable future as I am sure you are helping loads of people on here.

Nicola, your own story and how you've coped is also inspirational, that kinda goes without saying on here. You've created a fantastic resource here and to be honest the more people like Fishmanpa this forum can attract, without health anxiety, who can help those with health anxiety, the better.

[almamatters]

I have to say I do enjoy reading Fishmanpa's logical perspective on symptoms and HA. I hope you do stay on this forum .I know your posts help and reassure a lot of people.