Day 33... anxiety was pretty good overall. The wife and I delayed the V-day celebration on the 14th due to my working and wanting to put the extra time into her meal. Instead cooked it today. Slept in pretty late (9:30'ish). Once I got up, got ready and in my rush didn't have my coffee. No problem, I was on my way to the specialty market anyway for v-day treats and decided to stop in a little drive through coffee stand near the market. Imagine my embarassment when I drove up and found it to be a bikini stand. The poor gal must've been freezing in there in her bikini when it was 40 (farenheit) out. I drove up, red faced , too embarassed to stay, but more embarassed to leave. A grown man stammering like an idiot just to get out a meek "tall americano, no room". I think she noted my embarassment cause I couldn't look her in the eye and fixed my coffee promptly, no small talk, and let me be on my way. Red faced, I made my way through the market with little anxiety and everything I needed for the dinner. I spent my day prepping and preparing and snacking and noshing and tasting. It was a good day overall. Even found myself a decent non-alcoholic beer (bitburger, if anyone's interested) to have w/ dinner. The lamb chops w/ mint-parsley chimichurri came out exquisite as did my wife's chocolate cake (also made steamed clams in white wine and a beet/arugula salad). The evening went off much better than anticipated and my whole day overall was pretty good.
Day 34... anxiety about the same as day 33. Woke up again late. It was stormy out and the dog didn't want to go out to potty. Couldn't really blame him though, it was so gross out. Had a quiet morning in and worked out due to the feast we had the previous night. I was quite proud of myself. It had been about 3 months since my last work out and it was a good indicator of the progress I've made so far on the fluox. Got the grocery shopping done for the week (the standard stuff, not the haute cuisine). Spent a couple hours in the house before I got a little cabin fever and told the wife let's hit the road. Did a bit of antiquing and looking for a new rug for the living room. Off and on shocks of anxiety still roll in throughout the day. Doesn't appear to be any trigger setting them off. They're just random. At home, out and about, eating, reading, working... there's no rhyme or reason to it all. Guess I can chalk that up to remaining SE's I suppose as my normal anxiety is definitely trigger related.
Day 35... President's Day holiday today. My wife had to go into work, but I was off. Decided what better way to celebrate President Washington's birthday than doing taxes. Got the taxes squared away and found out we owe more than I'd like, but anxiety at a minimum. Had a bit of a wait returning a cable box at the local cable company and didn't panic at all waiting in line (45 minutes), then took the dog out for his walk. Allowed myself a little bit of an indulgence and went to get a burger for lunch. Polished the granite countertops and roasted a wonderful chicken for the evening meal. For some reason felt a bit snippy in my mood overall. Not angry at all, but my patience was thin, and I badgered my wife a bit about something silly that normally doesn't bother me. I'll just chalk that up to a bad moment, I suppose.
Day 36... early mornings are still a little rough. I notice that as I wake up I have increased anxiety and low mood for the first hour or so upon waking. It tends to even out as I get my day started. I'm hopeful this goes away as more time goes along. Pretty happy with the fact that I've avoided the use of sedatives while starting this journey (not that I've resisted using them, but I didn't have to use them) on fluox. Work provides a bit of a break from my mind although it can get a little tedious at times. I really miss my weekends my first day back at work for the week. I have a follow up with my pdoc this evening after work and unsure what to discuss with him. Likely that I'm doing okay, but not where I'd like to be yet. I suppose that it'll be a few more weeks to see the full benefits of the med. *Sigh* just wish it didn't take so long. Can't really complain too much though. My mood has been on the positive side of neutral for the most part and I haven't had any serious dips in a while.