I often find myself very lonely in the romantic sense, and I often get down about having been single for so long. But when I do meet a girl I like and things go well, I get incredibly anxious, as in I'm literally terrified at times. There's a girl I have an on/off relationship with, and we get on very well. I adore her and cherish every moment we have together, but I also get extremely anxious about being in a relationship. It's like I can't just relax and enjoy it. I don't even know what I'm afraid of. I just get incredible anxiety when it comes to relationships. I feel like at 25 I shouldn't be feeling like this. It's like I know what I want, but I'm scared of what I want. I'm a very romantic person, but deep down I'm very afraid of romance and dating. It might come from personal experience, I've had bad relationships in the past, but I find it frustrating that I'm a very loving and caring person, but deep down I'm afraid of relationships. I don't know how I got this way, I never used to have an issue with it. I just feel deeply scared for some reason I have no explanation for. Has anyone else been through this? Is it weird for a guy to feel this way? Can anyone offer any advice?