hiya girls
well im sitting here in tears not knowing what the hell to do, i have had yet another phone call from the school. Sam is 11 and he is actually my brother not my son, and he is a loving sensitive child, well he was until he started Grammar school in september. the reason he is with me is that we lost our mum in 2000 when Sam was 5 and i hav since been legal guardian,
in october i had a call from his form teacher saying that a parent had been in the school complaing that Sam had been calling her son names etc, Gay and other names he also apparently said that his mum was a lesbian, well i had a meeting with the teacher and i thought was all sorted, but then last friday i had a another call saying that he did the same again but to another child, it was tit for tat and he wasnt in trouble but they needed to make me aware, and ive just had another call saying that he has been calling a boy names, the boy says its not bulling but he dosnt like it and quite rightly so, i have got to go in the school again on thursday and they want him to see a councillor,
i feel like a failure, why is he being so cruel, honestly at home he is not like that at all, what do i do, nothing so far has worked, i dont know what punishment to give. he will deny it probably. i feel like pulling him out of the grammar school and putting him in secondary school maybe he is more suited there, i dunno. i think because the kids at his school are posh and loaded and we are not Sam stands out like a sore thumb and so do i.
any suggestions any1? please im just so upset
leanne xx
i just wanna feel normal