Please help me as I'm so worried about my boyfriend's presence at my house, I'm sure the only thing I can do is split up with him.
I'm scared of going to prison for benefit fraud and there's NO way I'd deal with that being agoraphobic. He is the father to my 2 babies, helps me when I'm having really "dark" weeks with bi-polar and cares for the children. Sometimes he may stay for more than a week and I can't beleive I've never worried about fraud as I claim as a single parent, I was when I met him and I am now but have found out as he's my youngest childrens father if he even stays 1 night at my house I could be in trouble and benefits stopped?
He owns his own house and lives with his 14 yr daughter, she's a 'problem' child, takes drugs is violent and promiscuous which is why she got taken from her mum (who's on at risk register) and put in her dads care. Big problem as I have 2 young girls, 10 & 12. They looked up to her and she's a very bad influence, basically there's NO way we can all live together as a family!!
When her dad comes to stay and help me out she stays with his sister for a week and a bit (the longest she can handle).
I don't know what to do, are we living together or aren't we in the eyes of the law, I can't find another situation like mine. We have talked about her going into care but I couldn't live with myself, nor could he.
Sorry I'm waffling on but this has been a nightmare for weeks to me now.
I had to get this down so may have missed out vital info, please ask questions if it's vague. Any views/opinions welcome