Today my therapist let me know that she thinks I've outgrown therapy, that I don't have any big 'problems' anymore and that it seems like I have to come up with things to focus the session on every week. So she asked me what I want to do. I know what she means because I've worked through my big anxiety and depression problems that made me start seeing her last year, but I still have anxiety from daily things. We see each other weekly or biweekly so I told her I thought I could see her less and she suggested an appointment date that's a month and a half away. That freaked me out because that's a *long* time away. I don't know what I'll be like in two weeks, let alone over a month away. I settled for an appointment in about a month instead.
I know she's right that I don't need weekly appointments anymore and I really am feeling a lot better lately than I used to, but after I left the session, it hit me and I feel really upset and distressed now. It feels like losing a friend. I feel way worse at this moment than I have about anything else in weeks. It feels like it's causing me more harm than good.
I have a pretty fast-paced, demanding, high-stress lifestyle right now and while I don't have a big trauma or anything to work through, I struggle with stress and anxiety from things on a daily basis. What I wish is that I could see her every couple weeks just to talk through everyday anxiety and social issues, but she clearly doesn't think that that's productive.
How do you cope when your therapist thinks you need to move on? I hate that this is making me feel so stressed out.