I didn't have the rapid eye movement thing (EMDR). What I had was all to do with imagery.
Sarah one of my friends left a kettle near the edge of the worktop and her little one pulled it on top of himself. No one blamed her for this, it was a tragic accident and no one should be blaming you. These accidents happen a lot. You know yourself that you love the baby with your heart and would do nothing to harm the baby. Delete all the texts from your daughter. know in your own heart that you have done nothing wrong. xx