Friend committed suicide and I need a hug
We were friends online and we had spoke for years. He stayed in Ireland and I stay in Scotland. We were the same age and me, him, my bf and his brother were all close for years. We spoke about everything under the sun and he helped me through a lot. We never got a chance to meet due to money difficulties and uni work etc but we were always talking. Last month, he went missing after a night out and everyone assumed he was just lying on a friends floor hungover as a 21 yr old would do but after he never came home, after a few days it became obvious something had happened. 19 days later, his body would found in a river near a power plant. I knew in my gut after a while he was dead but it still hit me like a tonne of bricks when I found out. He recently helped me through my panic attacks and what gets to me is he never told me he was going through some bad times too and I am sure you can imagine how that makes me feel. I'm also heartbroken I never got to meet him in person :( His family invited me and my bf over for the funeral but I didn't have a penny to my name :( I was truly honoured his family wanted me there though. I'm going over in June to see his family for a few days and then back over in March when they put up his headstone. I'm sorry for this rant, I just had to get it in writing if that makes sense?
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C-PTSD (Complex Trauma), OCD, Panic Disorder, GAD
"Save your sympathy for someone else. I don't need it or want it. What you call a panic attack is merely a few normal chemicals that are temporarily out of place in my brain. It is of no significance whatsoever to me!"
"Recovery always lies ahead - however painful the moment"
"Recovery lies in the places and experiences you avoid"
Dr Claire Weekes.