Sex phobia

[Konstant]

Here's my deal- I used to be very sexually active at a young age. Then one day something hit me and I was forever scared of STD's and pregnancy. Even though I always used a condom.

It's been over a year since I had sex. My significant other and I are planning to sometime soon, and I'm nervous that it may be a mistake.

Part of me says that it would be great. My self
Esteem has been so down and I've been really depressed ontop of constant anxiety that plagues my mind on the daily

another part of me says i shouldn't and shouldn't risk getting someone pregnant if I don't really think I want a kid..

Any advice? I can't take it anymore

[true nature]

Hello Konstant,
can you talk to her about that? I know it sounds scary, talking about your innermost fears and it is easier said than done, but have you ever considered it? Maybe that will help. x