Hi, this is my first message and I'm unsure whether this kind of issue is welcome on this forum, but I was part of some sexual experimentation with my younger brother when we were very small, and it is causing me a great deal of anxiety and panic.
I am 19 now, and at the time I was 11 or 12 and my brother was 7 or 8. We used to have duvet days and for some reason at one point we started rubbing our penises together; this occurred perhaps a dozen times over a few months. Also at one point we attempted anal penetration but it didn't work.
It was at this point that I realised how wrong it was and we never did anything like it again, it has played on my mind ever since. I must stress that there was nothing sinister going on, there was no coercion involved. We were two innocent young boys who didn't really know what we were doing. Looking back it was probably early puberty hormonal changes that caused it, but I still feel very strange about it.
What worries me is you hear of sexual encounters between minors, and I heard a rumour that this sort of thing is now classed as rape? What I'm looking for really is some reassurance that I haven't done anything catastrophically wrong, it has got me down for years and I just want to put a lid on it.
I hope this isn't too inappropriate and I hope everyone understands that I wasn't fully in control of what I was doing at the time. Me and my brother were both equally intrigued by the whole thing, it most certainly was not me doing anything to him against his will.
Please try not to judge me, and feel free to redirect me if I'm in the wrong place.
Regards,
Dave