I've had an on and off week, if anyone's read my previous threads you'll know that about 3.5 weeks ago me and my boyfriend broke up out of the blue and I've been a bit down and all over the place about it, and I've also been pretty ill - head cold and tonsillitis! Ugh.
Over the last few days however, I've been stressing about my future SO much! I'm going to be 25 years old next month and I'm feeling a bit uneasy about it, I think I'm just over-thinking everything. I literally spent years house bound with severe social anxiety and agoraphobia until a year and a half ago when I finally felt better enough to look for a job and got myself one, I also starting actually having a life, going out, doing things, making new friends. Now I've no idea how I coped being stuck at home so much, I get bored and stressed so easily being at home too much now! (I do however, get panicky when I'm at home for too long as I had a bad panic attack earlier in the year at home), I've developed a more general anxiety disorder, or maybe I've always had it but not realized as my SAD took over everything.
I just so much want to move on with my life, I desperately want to move out of my parents house and get myself a little flat, but first I need to pass my driving test and get myself a better paid job. My mind is all over the place with all the different ideas and decisions I'm trying to mill over! I work in retail at the moment, I don't mind where I work, I love who I work with and I will be sad to leave the place, I've got so used to it, it's such a social place to work (a large supermarket) but I need to move on with my life and I would love to work as an administrator and be on a yearly salaried job, full time hours.
I'm just very confused, I don't know where to start. My anxiety is making me feel very stressed about it, but I can't do much until I take my driving test in 2 months, if I pass it then fantastic I can start looking for another job!
I just feel like I haven't achieved much, I suppose it's because I've only started 'living' my life over the last year and a half, most people my age are a bit more established by now. Most of the people from my year at School have good jobs, boyfriends, husbands and even children! Wow. I definitely don't want to settle down yet though! I want to travel, at least, first!
I suppose all this is normal anyway, I just need to calm down and not be so hard on myself! I shouldn't feel ashamed about my anxiety problems, I should be proud of myself for over-coming so much?!