Just to clarify...I wasn't making any kind of judgement, only an observation. I do realise that people are in alot of mental pain when they ask for help, but unless they get absolute sympathy they immediately go on the defensive and think they're being judged...they're not. Of course the forum is geared up to give out a huge amount of sympathy, it's what it was created for but sometimes people need a bit of reality thrown in the mix too. We have to also allow people to have an opinion that may be different from our own. Take care.

ISB x