Every year i get the same old feelings about how christmas isnt looking the way i wish it did. Every year i dream of fun festive gatherings with friends and busy happy family parties with lots going on and it just never goes like that. Instead i am sat indoors with my boyfriend (who hates going out) or on my own most of the time filled with a feeling of disappointment and anxiety about my ill health. My brother is out with his own friends and my sister who now has a baby is involved in her own family stuff, even my parents have a better social life than me. I wish i was seeing my friends and i wish i was going to a family party but now Christmas eve and day just seem lonely and drawn out. It seems like everyone around me is having a wonderful time except me and i feel like there's something wrong with me. When i was younger our family had a big xmas eve party, there was always excitement and Christmas was such a lovely time and i look bad on those memories and i wish it was back then. Now im 24 i know it won't be exactly the same but i thought id have more friends and more going on. Plus im having really bad anxiety over bowel/stomach issues and im scared i have cancer. Ive been off work for a week nearly and thats not helping. I really loathe Christmas.