Hi, ive been with partner for almost 12 years, we have an 11 year old son. Things have been bad for years, he smokes weed, refuses to get a proper job, hes a musician, very talented.
For years hes played computer games through the night and slep throu the day, all that changed a few mkmths ago though, hes become fixated on doing his music whicj is great, but he sleeps til about 4 now and goes to bed 8-9am, i find this affects me and my feelings as ridiculous as that may sound. Tonight (new years eve) we had a few drinks, i feel im coming down with a virus and about 2.30 said j didn't want a drink for a bit. Hes gone mad since then, hhes called me names like old granny, 90 year old, boring etc. Hes played severely loud music, wont turn it down, he was screamingand said he will until his throat bleeds, to help him sound like a rock star.
Hes told me to f off multiple times, screamed at me and keeps turning musicmlouder and louder. Im v on edge, haven't been to bed yet.
Ive asked him to leave, but feel so guilty as yes i am boring and haven't had sex with him for months, maybe cos of antidepressants affecting me....sorry for spelling, on my tablet and hard to type.
Please help anyone