The panic attacks are back
So I was doing ok for a while, I think mostly cos I was sleeping with this guy again, a kind of friends with benefits thing, but we've known each other a good 10 years, and he makes me feel good and comfortable and we always have a laugh, when my Grandma passed away recently things started up again and I think this helped me to deal with my emotions or maybe I was hiding from them.
Anyways I fell for him again, this happened last summer and we ended things as he was getting over an ex. And once again I confessed my feelings only to have him tell me that he would be a rubbish boyfriend and that we'd end up breaking up and not being friends anymore would be a lot worse, so in true idiot style I got very drunk and had a big go at him via texts, I deleted him from facebook and he's blocked me, I let him be and sent him one text today and he's not speaking to me at all, and now I just have anxiety about everything, I used to talk to him about my panic attacks and now I can't, I'm worried and obsessed with my health again, I hate it, I feel so stupid and so used and instead of coping, I'm just using my eating disorder and having huge panic attacks to cope... but it's not really coping, I feel back to being on the brink of a nervous break down.
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