My husband and I have decided to buy a house ... at first it was really exciting to think about where we might live, having a yard, and being able to do whatever we want with the place. We are tired of living in an apartment with the neighbors, rules, noise, etc as well as feeling like we throw money away every month with rent. So we were excited to be in a place where we can do this now.
Well, now we are applying for the mortgage, looking at the facts/figures/payments, and all the fees and costs of just the purchase of the home ... nonetheless once we have it, if we need to fix anything or if anything goes wrong ... and I am panicking!!! It sounds so scary!! Property taxes where I live are ridiculous and will tack an extra $500/month onto my mortgage payment. We are trying to look at cheaper towns, but the so-called "inexpensive" towns have higher taxes than the "nicer" towns! Connecticut is a messed up state ...
I am also dealing with a judgment on my credit report from 6 years ago. I was sued when I was in a car accident because my car insurance didn't think I was at fault and denied the claim ... we lost in the hearing, my car insurance paid the guy. However the courts are still reporting it as "pending" and not paid. The lenders don't like this so I am going through the court system to motion it be changed. Then have to have the credit agencies be updated, which can take up to 30 days for each one as well. UGH.
I am at the point where I am like ... is this even worth it??? The money, the stress, having our savings disappear with the closing costs and downpayment. Any homeowners out there have input? I would appreciate it...