so basically met this girl off a dating site went on a couple of dates everything was going really well, shared alot of interests I understood from the start she wasnt a girl that sits on her phone as she took best part of a day too reply. I like to add by the third date we messed around in the bedroom. Now this is where im lost i always seem to be making the effort setting up dates etc , she went on holiday for a long weekend to see an old friend and i know she has alot on her plate at the min , her gran is really poorly etc etc . I said we should do something when she gets bk she agreed , yet a full week passes no txt nothing i know shes been online and on her phone , then out of the blue i get this txt " hey dude hows things what you up to? my hol was amazing .......had loads to do when i got back hope your well x ". I am lost i figured she wasnt interested i beat myself up over it and started over thinking the whole dates we had been on . Am i over-thinking the whole situation ?