Ricardo,
I mentioned your name as an example of a time I mentioned about my frustration. It was on a thread that is still around somewhere. There is nothing more to it than that.
No, there are different reasons and as I have stated, they will not be discussed in public. Equally I stated my position as is my right. This is not intended to cause friction as since it is my personal right to contribute or not (and not everybody does) no one has a right to question it either. People can choose to think what they wish, but people do not understand the reasons hence should perhaps think about that before judging. Nic has accepted this and I'm not sure why you are choosing to question it? If people are willing to judge my character purely on the basis of this, I am clearly in the wrong forum.
When I said "the above situation is included in this" I was not referring to monitoring of the site but the issue that I have asked for guidance on from Nic in this thread. Where I wrote that could be confusing as it might imply it means the paragraphs just above, it doesn't.
The point I raised about monitoring is something I thing needs resolving but I know there are resource issues hence that was not the reason. There are on all forums like this.
I'm not sure what you are trying to say in regards to doctors, personal experience, etc? If you mean to reconfirm what Pipkin has said a few times about people having differing opinions, I totally understand all that. I have no issue with people believing what they want to as long as it isn't harmful to others. People can choose to take advice, agree or disagree as is their right.
Moving on sounds good. BUT Venus gave us the right to reply above so we can talk about the issues. The alternative is we never move on or the issues fester and it starts again. If we weren't meant to discuss it, why not lock the thread and just make it a statement to all? We are not expected to all agree surely?
Also, when I saw this thread I was going to talk about the concerns I raised but did not expect to see the other issue that I have asked Nic for guidance on. I have already walked away from that issue before, I am not prepared to keep doing so and should not be expected to, it is unacceptable in my eyes. Admin are aware of the situation, it is between 2 people and admin. There is no need for anyone else to be involved in that. I realise its just another issue and some people may not appreciate it but lets remember I also have anxiety/feelings and there are limits to what I will accept just as you have been putting across for your own situation.
I think I realise why you have chosen to comment, to calm things, and I am aware there are things we don't know about. There is no ill will involved in what I am saying to you here and I respect the fact you are trying to help. But please remember you may not be in possession of all the facts either, admin are.
