Hello. I am 33 and am experiencing a sexual phobia. I have had this now for many years and was able to get help and actually overcame in about 3 years ago. I Now have a new partner and we have not had sex. When it comes to penetration I panic and my legs clamp and my chest feels tight and I just panic which then ruins the mood and nothing happens. In the past I was married and left my husband after one year as I was afraid of sex and knew it was never going to happen. I am 33 now and am really panicking that I will never have a child because of this phobia and it is causing me real stress. I was wondering if anyone has any practical help they can give me. I do not enjoy touching myself and find no pleasure in it . I just don't know how to overcome this .