I have worked really hard recently to overcome my health anxiety and was doing so well.....Until my husband came home from work and took his shirt off and i saw what looked like an irritated mole on his back :(

He has had this mole for a long time it's not changed in size from what i can see and its a uniform colour/symmetrical but around the outside it looks a little pinky/irritated and this has what has sent me into a panic.

I asked him to go and get it looked out and at first he flat out refused but he has agreed to go to the Drs and have it checked but why do i feel so guilty? maybe its because i feel like im projecting my fears onto him.

How do you handle your fears when it concerns your partner? has anyone else been in this position before?