Update for today: the neck lymph node is still there, but I accidentally found two more nodes - one is on my SCALP (?!), and the other is not behind my ear, but diagonally away from it. They are both size of small beans, and I assume both are them are visible because they are so close to the surface of the skin.
The scalp one doesn't move I think Is it because there's barely any movement space on the scalp anyway?? And it's definitely a bit painful to the touch. I also think the big lymph node in my neck has become a bit tender today as well.
I'm really terrified I'm going to find more of the buggers tomorrow The scalp one freaks me out, and now I'm worried sick because apparently multiple lymph nodes scattered are more likely to be cancerous?? I cried half of the day away yesterday and I literally could barely do my job at work today because of this mess :(