Hello everyone, I am a new to this forum but I’m not new to obsessive-compulsive disorder. I had my diagnosis last year it was confirmed by two psychotherapists and by a psychiatrist as well as having borderline personality disorder. At the moment I am struggling with the volume of intrusive thoughts and obsessions which seem to be playing out. They seem to be quite prominent at the moment which I can only surmise is due to me currently withdrawing from diazepam that I took over the Christmas period because it was a stressful time being away from home etc.
I am quite insightful and knowledgeable when it comes to my condition although I am currently struggling trying to rationalise things. Even though I am used to having intrusive thoughts about everyone & anything and they are heightened currently like I say with coming off diazepam etc There is one thing that is really troubling me at the moment & that is a harm obsession towards my mother which is making it difficult to be around her.
It's making me feel that I don’t love her. I feel like my mind is tricking me into thinking that I don’t actually love her but that I hate her which is making me obsesses/ruminate even more. It’s a vicious circle that is causing great distress which leads to further intrusive thoughts. I just feel numb and when I ask myself if this is true and try to rationalise it I can’t seem to make sense as to why, the real root cause behind the obsession. Is there underlying anger? etc. I just feel that this is taking over my real self and taking over the rational part of my brain and I just don’t know what to believe anymore. I feel genuinely detached from my real self and I am terrified because having the intrusive harm thoughts is one thing but then thinking that I dislike and hate my mum is as equally distressing. I’m trying my best to keep occupied and busy at the moment by attending a lot of self help groups through the week and I’m waiting for long-term therapy.
I guess I could just appreciate some feedback as to what you think this could symbolise. I know obviously you don’t know me and I am willing to expand on any questions that you have to put my way but I just am just really struck with this at the moment and I don’t know if it is normal to feel to this degree the way I feel with me questioning my emotions & feelings towards a person because I have not come across this before regardless of my knowledge and insight. I know that there is a likely chance of it being further psychological trickery playing out possibly to get my attention but I’m just curious to see what you think and would appreciate any advice/feedback on the matter. Thank you for taking the time to read this.