Hi!
Thought I'd give posting a shot since I'm struggling with something. I'm due to start an internship in a few weeks. Of course I already feel nervous as if tomorrow's actually my first day and I'll feel like that till the actual day. I can't sleep, I feel incredibly nervous, my hands shake constantly and I feel like I can't think straight. I really, really need to perform well, because I'll graduate afterwards hopefully.
I dread first days. So many new faces and good impressions I need to make. The classic what-if-they-dont-like-me will still haunt me the entire day. What if I sit there awkwardly on my own, consumed by extreme nervousness to do anything meaningful. Days like that drain me, when I come home I don't even feel like eating. I just want to go to bed.
Performance has to be my strength, it's what I got hired for and somehow the company saw potential in me (which I feel a bit suspicious of actually). When I feel anxiety however, I forget everything and then feel extremely self-conscious. I can't even tell you the basics of a subject when I'm in that state, I can't even draw a straight line when I sketch. Of course when I relax at home, it all comes back and I stop relaxing and start beating myself into the ground.
Does anyone have advice on how to clear your head or calm down? Had any good experiences with medication? I'm tired of being on edge all the time, it's exhausting and I fear for the future.
I really, for once, want to try and be zen when I tackle something like this!
Thanks in advance!