Why make such a big mistake???

[Karen]

Hi Sal

I can totally understand why you need to talk to him to get some closure on the relationship. I think I would too in your situation.

I hope you get the answers you want from him and you can remain friends if that is what you want.

Love
Briary xx

[sal]

Thanks Sarah

Yeah i do want to talk it through and like you say as close as we were would be stupid to lose a friendship. I have accepted that the relationship is over but i do miss his friendship and all the support he gave me.



Love Sal xxxxx

[sal]

Hi Briary

Thanks for that. I am sure we can sort something out and i would like to stay friends.



Love Sal xxxxx

[Merlinssister]

I think everyone else has said anything I would add. So *hugs* and I hope you and he manage to get that friendship back.

[sal]

Thanks Merlin

Me too then at least it wont feel so strained and awkward at work.



Love Sal xxxxx

[nomorepanic]

Sal

Perhaps in time you will be able to be just mates again and then you can still call him for the odd chat etc.

I hope so.

Nicola

[sal]

Hi Nic

I am ready for that now mate.

Just hope as ready as i feel i am i can cope with it.



Love Sal xxxxx

[sal]

Tried to talk to Graham tonight chose a bad time as he was walking out of office and said get yourself home he meant it but i took it wrong way and took it as F*** of Sal dont need it now. So confronted him but after finding con trying to stap his pad mate i wasnt in best mood. So now all he can see is me saying if you meant what you said and wanted to talk dont walk away then i got upset. So i walked out as didnt know all those things i wanted to say went. So now he feels if i try to talk to him i cry, so he got it right. Sorry thought i was a lot stronger.

Love Sal xxxxx

[seh1980]

hey Sal,

It was obviously just the wrong time for both of you so try not to get too upset about it. It must be very hard for you both to know what to say after all that has happened at it's not easy knowing how and when to approach the subject. If you are feeling a little upset about it now, then chances are that he is as well. Of course you are strong!! think about how well you have coped with everything that you have been through!! I'm sure that the conversation will go better next time - don't give up mate!!

Sarah

[sal]

Hi Sarah

Thanks for that mate. It is hard and i know now how i felt last night that i need to talk to him and then put it behind me and get on with been his friend at work. He is still been really friendly which is what i want but just need to clear the air so it is a natural friendship.

Got myself over last night just had a bad day and i think him walking out iced the cake.

Not happy that he has discussed things with people i know, but i did tell him that last night and i told him that he should have been discussing it with me or at least not people i work with.

Hopefully get it sorted sooner rather than later.



Love Sal xxxxx