At some point, any of us may need someone to stand up for us as a stagmatised minority. It's people like you who will do this as you think of the whole not just yourself.
You'll only frustrate yourself by trying to reason with people who can't see this and the inherent hypocrisy of their prejudice.
Chin up, I predict that things will be no where near as bad as people fear, much to the disappointment of many Trump supporters.
Pip
aka moaning liberal, supporter of minority rights (including anxiety sufferers and the LGBT community) and proud of it.