Originally Posted by
KeeKee
Thank you both for responding. I've actually managed to get an earlier appointment with my GP (well it's not the one I usually go to so feel a bit sick but better than waiting weeks) so I'll get a sick note on Tuesday and I was told by ESA if I'm eligible, it should hopefully be sorted by 6th September.
KatiePink I know what you mean about shelter and bedding etc and I do realise even though we struggle, we are still much better off than many others. I know I have people who love me etc but I don't feel loved if that makes sense. I feel like I can't point out any positives in my life this is where I struggled with therapy to the point he made me write stuff down that I didn't see as positives so it felt like I was faking it if that makes sense. Obviously I have my family, food, shelter and 3 cats whom I adore, but I have one thing that I've never told anybody and it can overtake even the most positive things in the world. Until that goes away I'll always feel this negative hold on me. It makes every single day difficult. Then there is my low self esteem which makes things worse. I hate the way I look and even though there are people out there who are disfigured and the likes who would probably love to look like me i still feel like crap. My looks have changed so much due to stress or depression and leaving the house makes me feel ill.
Ah I see I'm not sure how I'd contact DWP then. I did call my local authority and was advised they could offer food vouchers but only if ESA refuse to give me an advanced payment of ESA and I'd need to write down who refused to and why. I didn't feel upto this on Friday so may do it tomorrow. £20 will probably do food though to he honest, pasta is cheap as anything, I'll get tinned beans and have beans on toast, i already have lots if teabags and sweeteners I'll make sure I have milk and bread, we don't eat cereal anyway so 4 pints should do a full week. It just means not eating my regular stuff for a few weeks and I'm sure I'll despise pasta by then haha. Also I'll be stuck in the house with my daughter during school holidays which is depressing as anything. She goes back in 2.5 weeks and I literally haven't taken her anywhere yet. Not even out for a meal. She's already told me her friends keep asking why she never goes on holiday etc, imagine when she goes back and tells people she has literally been nowhere. I can't even sit in the garden as I feel too uncomfortable when neighbours are also out.
Sorry for ranting yet again. Feel like all I do is think negatively but given how much my life and body has changed these last few years I just feel like absolute hell.