I have had mild social anxiety for a while, it was bearable and didn't affect my life, it was possibly just shyness as opposed to actual anxiety.
However these last 18 months I have severe anxiety being around people. I can't be bothered to socialise anymore, have no interest in making friends etc and I truly believe it's due to a change in my appearance since early last year.
I have developed dark circles under my eyes along with puffiness that comes and goes (my dark circles never go). I looked exhausted even when I'm not. I have oily skin and any physical exertion triggers it and it lasts all day long and I look like I've just applied baby oil. I also have really dry, fragile hair. I look horrendous. Any humidity or me being hot and it goes frizzy, curly and looks horrible.
The shallow part is that until my mid 20's (I'm 27) I felt quite attractive (not stunning or anything but nice). I always used to get attention from others and compliments etc. I have my hangups like everybody else but I still felt attractive if that makes sense. I had lovely hair, I liked my eyes, I had acne still as I've had that since I was 20, but I didn't have dull looking skin like I do now. I have crows feet, deep wrinkles under my eyes and I'm absolutely devastated. I look hideous and can't face seeing anybody. When people I used to know when I looked nice walk past, I feel like I could vomit.
I don't understand why I've changed so much. The only thing that happened last year is that I lost the weight I'd gained from Paroxetine and along with that came damaged hair (even at my roots where my straighteners don't touch), dark circles, greasy skin and the lowest mood I've ever had. I feel completely repulsive and hate being around other people.
I still go out, I'd go insane if I stayed in the house all the time. It just feels so unbelievably depressing to go from being decent looking to looking like a troll. I have photos too that prove the change. Not from any angle can I take a photo where my dark circles aren't showing. I've tried eating healthy etc and it doesn't change it. I'm currently trying to drink more plain water as I always add juice to it.
It's like the before and after photos of drug addicts.
Sorry for my shallow, self pitying post I just can't seem to get over this and I've really, really tried. I just want to look like the normal me.