Hi, I am a 20 years old girl constantly bothered with a fear/phobia/i don't know how to call it.
First of all I am going to apologize for my writing (english is not my native language) and if this post is in the wrong section
So here is the thing. Note that I have never talked about this with anyone other than a few words with my boyfriend, who couldn't really help me out.
I have been having several thoughts on death, and i am terrified everytime i think about it, which is very often. It happens when i am laying on my bed at night, but also in the morning when i am waiting for the bus to come, or in any moment when i am alone and i can think. it scares me so much, the thought that one day i will be not existing anymore, i will not have any feeling because "I" will cease to exist, I will cease to "be", and that is just terrifying for me. But it is not all.
Sometimes, when i really let my mind travel and i don't push myself into other thoughts, i have this super weird and super, super scary experience, the most terrifying thing i have ever felt in my life. I don't really know how to put that feeling into words. it is a very short feeling (vary from less than a second to 2 seconds circa), in which i kinda feel like i am dead. I feel some kind of palpitation? that overwhelms me and scares me deep down, like i'm feeling the fear inside my heart and bones. And after this "palpitation", there is a brief moment when i feel nothing. Nothing at all. Even saying that "I feel nothing" seems wrong, because in that moment I really don't feel at all. like, as I said, I am dead. And you can imagine how scary that can be from a person that has a deep fear of being dead.
I don't know how to cope with all of this. I feel lost and small, afraid that i am just gonna cease to exist and no one will ever remember who i was and i will not exist in anyone's thoughts either, but mostly i am scared of these weird experiences i have had and i continue to have.
Any advice will be so appreciated, I know you may not be able to solve my problem but just learning more about what i am having or at least giving a name to my feelings would make me feel really better and safer. Thank you so much and sorry for this long post!