Originally Posted by
axolotl
I'm with Terry here. As much as Helen frustrates us and needs a (gentler than some people give her IMHO) kick up the bum sometimes to stop her going down the pointless path she's on, and push her towards getting any correct help she needs (which sadly never works), I've had fears about leukaemia, MS and other diseases that in the cold light of rationality are ridiculous, and would make someone dealing with the actual disease laugh out loud or feel deeply insulted, depending what mood they're in.
I realise things are going to be triggers for some people, and pointing out a lived experience is nothing like people's fears should be enough to jolt people out of it (sadly this rarely happens in Helen's case either...), but NMP should be a place we can voice our ridiculous anxiety thoughts for others to talk us down, as long as people show respect to real sufferers where they occur.