Originally Posted by
Carrie8484
If i'm ever in the Manchester i'd be happy to meet up for a brew or a beer.
I know how it feels to be lonely as i've said before, and i'm often lonely now, but since I got together with my boyfriend things have been better.
I dont have a 'best friend'. I'd love a really good, close friend, but I'm resigned to the fact it wont happen now. It doesn't get me down any more, i just try and be grateful for what I do have I guess.
I'm more relaxed about it now i'm older.
The increased fear of missing out is one of those things i'd put down to social media mostly. I know you are a fan of instagram and your pics are great, but I imagine sometimes it can make you feel worse. I hate checking Facebook and seeing people 'having fun' all the time when i'm at home. But then I remind myself that a lot of the time, I dont want to go out anyway, or when you dig deeper, they aren't having the amazing lives you think they are.
I also agree with what a lot of the others have said about enjoying your own company first and learning to love yourself (sorry if this sounds corny to you). You seem like a great guy and fun to be around, you need to stop giving yourself a hard time. Relax a little bit, keep doing all the things you enjoy.
Believe it or not, not everyone has a solid group of friends they've known since school. A lot drift apart as they have different paths in life and have different interests. A lot of people get fed up of being let down/disappointed and go in search of new friends. It's not too late.
Are there any anxiety groups close by that you could go to? You'd be surprised at the types and varieties of people that go to them. or do some more volunteering? Maybe at cats protection or a homeless charity?
Hope you have a better day today x