Am I a shit girlfriend?

[Louanne]

Not really sure if needed on a GAD forum but it makes me feel anxious.

I sometimes am guilty of daydreaming I am dating another person, made up, nobody in particular (ie; I'm friends with a famous person and they have a friend I get with, or if I'm listening to music I act out a scenario in which I'm bein sang to by someone else) I am happy with my partner, so in love, so I feel guilty for these odd day dreams.

I know its normal to fancy other people, but to daydream about strangers as an other half? I always think about my partner I loving situations too and cute scenarios, I am a big day dreamer lol.

[Gotagetthroughthis]

No you aren't a shit girlfriend lol. Everyone has different thoughts, fantasies, day dreams and dreams all of the time and it doesn't mean they are a bad partner. Don't beat yourself over your thoughts .

[SLA]

Day-dreaming doesn't make you a shit girlfriend.

But you might still be one.

I'm joking of course, I'm sure you are fab.