Thanks panic sufferer that makes sense hopefully next time I'm spiralling out of control with the worries I will try and remember this.
I don't really do any relaxation things when I'm feeling ok I darent do it because I think it will draw attention to the anxiety but then when I'm feeling really bad and my thoughts are taking over me I haven't got the energy to do it. I know it sounds stupid, maybe I should set a time every day where I do my relaxation cd