So I've been struggling with numerous anxiety disorders all my life. I managed to overcome a severe panic disorder and agoraphobia, but my major health anxiety never went away. Mainly because I'm one of those unlucky souls who spent her life being worried about 'something bad happening'...and then it did. Around 25 a rare, formerly undiagnosed genetic disorder manifested itself and I lost my ability to walk. I lost it completely of course and went off the rails for 7 years psychologically. My disorder 'only' affects my arms and my legs not the rest of my body, thank God. But I've lost all trust in my body and am always waiting for the next bad thing to happen. Because it did and I will never feel safe again.
I knew that with all my anxiety issues my heart was bound to become an obsession one day. And so it did. About 6 months ago I had my first palpitation. Nothing major and I've since realised that it only ever happens during the week of my period. Which is not unusual and a hormonal thing apparently. But I went on Google (I know...) and came across that study saying that people with a heart rate over 80 would die 25 years earlier than others. And I am wearing an Apple Watch which conveniently constantly records my heart rate. And it's almost constantly over 80. It hardly ever gets above 88 and only over 100 when I exercise. But I am now obsessed with that number 80. Although anything between 60 and 100 could be normal apparently.
So here I am. Constantly focusing on my heartbeat. Feeling it everywhere. Feeling it go up when I've eaten or after drinking alcohol. Looking at my watch and seeing that number over 80 again. And bursting into tears because I've convinced myself that this means my days are numbered. I try to exercise as much as I can, but as a wheelchair user exercising enough to get your resting heart rate down seems impossible. I'm not feeling dizzy or sick but I worry constantly. And my Apple Watch records support that worry.
How do I let go of this unhealthy obsession?