After losing my mum 2 months ago, I have been struggling with my anxiety, especially health anxiety and coping with bereavement.
I seem to be worse now then when my mum passed away.
I am trying to get on with my life, but I seem to be carrying so much pain, guilt and worry. It is affecting my anxiety and I just feel scared about everything! It also has dug up my grief about my dad, who I lost 3 years ago and the anniversary of his death was last weekend.
I don't have much contact with the outside world, but I do force myself to go in to Town and manage to chat to a few people, but I don't have anyone to talk to about the way I feel. I do have a partner, but he just doesn't get how I feel or how difficult I am finding coping with day to day life. If truth be known, I am now worrying about him as well.
I seem to be worrying about EVERYTHING! And I have to point out that I am a trier and fighter and not one to give up, but I have this feeling of dread and a big black cloud hanging over me.
I miss my mum terribly and feel I let her down.
I know time is a healer and all that, but when anxiety comes in to play as well, it just makes it so much harder.
I don't expect anyone to wave a magic wand and it is probably something I have to overcome myself, but maybe there is someone out there that has been through this and could show some light to me.
I have become so weepy and frightened lately and find myself angry with a lot of things in life and I want to start building a new life for myself, but feel helpless as to what to do. My paranoia has become more apparent and I worry I am heading for a downward spiral.
Apologies for the long post, but if nothing else, it helps me to get all of this out of my system.