Hi my brother told us he was gay when he was about 14.Then a few years ago he told us he wanted to be a woman and started to dress as a woman.He had the appointments at charring cross hospital and everything.
Now he has stopped dressing and has said he is not a transexual he is gay,but likes straight men not gay men.Its so confusing.
I have always known he was gay from a very early age.
My question is to anyone who is gay,when did you first realise you were gay?How do you know,and can be sure its not just a phase?
I have also got two cousins in the same family who are gay,male and female brother and sister.
I would just like some way of understanding a little bit.My brothers problems have played a very large part in my anxiety problems.Not because he is gay but because he became an alcoholic to try and accept his sexuality.
Thank you