Hi everyone. I have been worrying about a mole for over two weeks now. But because I thought (mainly think) it is all anxiety and their is nothing to worry about really I haven't been to see the doctor.
Later this week my husband is going away. And him being away always triggers my health anxiety terribly. The worry about this mole has become unmanageable for me today. And my quandary is should I go to the doctor now or not?
If he refers me to a derm. I will really panic and find it hard to cope when my husband is away. If I don't go I will be the same. If I go and he says it's nothing to worry about I think I will be able to let it go.
The mole in question is just over 4mm and the shape is normal. A few weeks ago I got some bites near where this mole is. Perhaps even one on it. And it became inflamed and formed a scab which I picked off and it bled. This has all healed now. No scab. But I am convinced the mole looks slightly red in the middle and is maybe a tiny bit different in shape.
Essentially I think most people would assume it was irritated by my bites and scratching and has now healed with a little redness remaining. But I keep having huge panics that it is melanoma. I have around 200 photos of this stupid mole on my phone.
Should I go to the doctor?