All comments welcome
All comments welcome
Struggled to get into this I must admit Meg. Found the introduction a bit long when I just wanted to 'get right into' the relaxation.
I will persevere but find relaxing in general this way pretty difficult
But as I say I will keep trying!!
Love
Lucky
Lucky,
Just move to track 2 or beyond straight away . No need to listen to it all every day.
Pick what you need at the time so if you're anxious check your breathing speed out with one of those tracks - if you're just needing to unwind go straight to a visualization.
Its a menu of choices not a tutorial .
It does get easier.
Love
Meg
I've been skipping over the intro too after the first time. I must I have been finding it hard to fit all the CD in too as I'm so busy, but now I know it's ok just to do bits, then I'll give that a go.
I too am finding it virtually impossible to relax, so should probably be listening to it all day, lol
Love
Jules
Jules
Alot of the relaxation reminded me of hypnosis (what my hypnotist done to me anyway!!!)
Now I'm thinking did I pay £45 a session for someone to flippin relax me!!!!
Visualisation I really struggle with, I know it is good for concentration but I remember my hypnotist trying to get to me to visualize and I can't
I think it might be a mental block i have ie too scared to visualize incase I start seeing things when I close my eyes that I don't want to see
Think it is linked back to the thoughts It was bad enough thinking things sometimes without being able to see them as well
sounds stupid I know..
Love
Lucky
Hypnosis is relaxation with the added benefit of communicating directly with the subconcious to suggest change and 'reset' thought patterns and habits .
It took me about 6 months to get anywhere near a decent visualization . I like the garden one best as it's yours to imagine and elaborate on so you don't get any suprises and over the weeks its gets fabulously detailed and personal.
Meg
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Meg,
I dont know whether this is a good or a bad thing but the last few times I have listened to the relaxation CD I fall off to sleep. Obvioulsy I am relaxing enough to fall alseep but Ruth does ask you not to go to sleep. What I my doing wrong?
I like the last exercise the best on the CD as I find it relaxes me the most. I am struggling with the visualisation one as my mind always becomes distracted somehow.
Overall, I do fine this CD helping me with my breathing and relaxing.
Thanks Meg
sadie
You're doing great . Its fine to fall asleep . I like that one too.
The idea is that eventually you enter into a meditational state but it needs plenty of practice.
For what we need - sleep state is fine !!
Glad the breathing is helping . Have you tried it when in a bit of a state yet to help slow you down ?
Love
Meg
Hi Meg
I must confess, Although I have had the CD's since Wednesday, I only listened to them today as I have a fear of things like this (dont ask me why - just another panic thing).
Anyway, Ive had a rough couple of days panicking and the like, full blown ones and really negative thoughts and so I put on the relaxation CD, closed the curtains, turned the lights off, lit 2 candles and laid on the sofa.
It definately relaxed me completely. I had to go out tonight to meet friends I havent seen for 6 months and was to tell the truth absolutely bricking it all day.
Enough going on and getting to the point, I went, had a good time and even had a laugh (something I dont do often anymore) so big thumbs up to you and Ruth. you did the trick for me!
Ruth has a very relaxing voice - perfect for the relaxation CD, she spoke slowly and calmly.
Maybe one small criticism....oops...sorry....During the breathing exercises, I was doing the breathing out, counting, pausing, etc and ruth did a bit of taking in the middle and by the time she started counting again it was totally out of synch with the in/out breath I was on so I got a bit flustered and wasnt sure wether to carry on as I was or take a quick in out and count with her again. I guess it doesnt really matter but it did to me and you did ask for opinions
love Sarah
xx
Hi Sarah,
Glad it did the trick and most of all that you had a good night out .
Which breathing track was that one on please ?
I suggest getting back in synch with her and re establish the rhythm.
Thanks for letting me know .
Love
Meg
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