Weekly could cost me £160 a month I would soon have no cash. I’ve been wondering if I should continue it as even £40 a month is a lot to me however replacing stuff also costs money. No advice can stop me rebuying it’s a habit I’ve picked up and find it hard to break the cycle.
If I was living on job centre money it may be good for my ocd as I couldn’t replace stuff. For example at work they put lots of toilet rolls in when the cleaner is on holiday they don’t get replaced as much so I use a small amount and take less time. It doesn’t cause me too much anxiety but sadly Argos is too close by and i can be skint for one rucksack and no anxiety. I can use a full roll of toilet paper as I can buy more. I admit I don’t buy as much expensive loo roll these days due to me spending my cash on expensive holidays. The expensive holidays cuts my anxiety down and relaxed me.
Some ocd I have been able to improve like not coming out the shower however I only managed this by wiping my backside with wet towel before I go in. But yes because stuff is readily available and easy to replace, toilet paper easy to use loads when they replenish it this means I do it more. I resisted buying another hoover when I moved onto this property a month or so ago you may remember I posted about this. The worry has since passed however not all my obsessive thoughts dissapear.
Biggest issues right now:
*Grass At the bottom I use a different strimmer due to the bathroom bin going there
*The cupboard worry and the urge to buy new rucksacks. The printer is in the same cupboard and the rucksacks were on top however I have a lesser urge to believe these are contaminated so I don’t think I will replace.
I purchased a book today called break free from ocd perhaps you could look it up I was recommended I try this with my theropy. It has some good ideas but basically aims for you to forget the thoughts however I find this hard but it explains the ocd well.
But yes I can’t afford anymore sessions right now for therapy. It might mean I suffer still but people moaned at me on here for seeking no theropy so I believe I’ve taken a step towards trying out cbt. The doctors and nhs never helped much for my ocd and I’m not the type who would persist and keep going to the doctors. I’m hoping the sessions will help and I may even consider doing more driving lessons not done them in 8 years I could use the money once the theropy finishes to do this or maybe save the money away instead.
I do wonder if when the therapy finishes if I need more help or if the therapy will mean I come on here and discuss ocd less and recover? The book I’ve read says it’s impossible to be sure something is 100% clean it picks up on perfectionism too. See I would like things to be 100% clean and unspoiled but that may not happen