Re: Absence after posts
Originally Posted by
axolotl
That's the problem though, people are expecting help off non-professionals, most of which have mental health issues themselves. Sometimes I wonder if our only advice should ever be to get professional help, and support and encouragement for that, and if people aren't prepared to do that walk away from the discussion before frustration kicks in. It's certainly how I hope to go forward after ruminating on this.
That and not let the behaviour of long-time "regulars" cloud my judgement of new posters.
This is more along the lines of what I was trying to say, well put axolotl. I said this on another post but it really isn't our responsibility to do the job of a therapist or provide constant reassurance. Most of us aren't well enough for that.
I do think that it's too easy to become emotionally involved. Maybe it is for the best if we just direct them towards help with the anxiety and if it doesn't work, bow out.
As Terry says there are extremes on both sides, it might be best if we ask what the poster is doing about the anxiety, giving advice about how to treat it and then leaving it at that.
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