Re: Relapse! Coping, Symptoms and Tips.
Carnation, I hope you are able to get things sorted. I know here sometimes houses sell from one landlord to another, so maybe that could happen? Or maybe you'll be able to find somewhere else to be that's just as comfortable.
I too struggle with living in the present and not fearing the future. It's probably an anxiety thing, maybe somewhat normal, but while usually anxiety accompanies those thoughts sadness does as well. It makes me think of the Winnie the Pooh saying that goes like "how wonderful it is to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard". It's really difficult to imagine life in 2, 5, 10, 20 years and thinking of all that will change and what those changes may look like, and especially so when you have so much currently to love and be thankful for. It partially makes me incredibly sad, but also fills me with a lot of nervous energy and a need to control things, which of course leads to just more anxiety and sadness when I realize I can't control everything and I can't always determine what I can fix or what I can't.
So anyway, that's a novel but I completely empathize with you and hope you get some good news regarding the situation.
It's funny that you mention it Pulisa, because for all of my anxiety and whatnot, I am actually also pretty good in a crisis. I remember being on a camping trip when our tent was destroyed by lightening (while we were inside!) and being the only member of our little group with a clear enough head to salvage our items and get us to safety. Another time I was abroad in London with a friend when our accommodations fell through; my friend was in tears but I was able to get us alternate lodging and salvaged the rest of the trip. So I guess I can't count myself out completely, and you shouldn't count yourself out either. It's just when we see the problem coming from 20 miles away that we start to fret about what needs to be done and how it will all play out.
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