Re: Relapse! Coping, Symptoms and Tips.
It's a weird one. It's a big adjustment for women to suddenly have their husbands hanging the house when they are used to having the place to themselves. There doesn't seem to be anywhere you can be alone anymore. I never have the tv on in the morning, now until I physically turn it off myself, he can have it blathering away in the corner all day. You want the bathroom...he's in it, so you have to go downstairs. But the good outweighs the bad and now we are together all the time, I feel more of a team rather than two individuals. We seem to be living one life now, in it together, rather than two people who get together in the evening after a separate days work.
one downside is, now he's aware of my eBay parcels arriving. I could order, receive and be wearing it before he knew what day it was. "This old thing? I've had it for years....you never look at me"
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