Thank you, Joe and Pulisa, for joining this thread! Always nice to hear your comments and thoughts and I agree with them! Acceptance. intellectually I know that that is the solution to a LOT of my issues. Not so easy to accomplish, but I truly know that is the key. I will keep practicing, and I will get back to practicing my meditation as I'm sure it's not something that has any profound affects in the first week or even the first month.
Yes, I'm searching want ads and hospital sites for a part-time job that will still allow me the freedom of some days off and sleeping late, but will get me out of the house and feeling productive and useful again. And I'm "accepting" that the right job will come along when it's meant to. I really should take the full 6 months of not working that I always promised myself I would take, but it might take that long to find something and I need to remind myself not to feel obligated to accept any job offer I might get.
Perfect description, AJ! "Acted out bullsh/t sessions!" That's exactly what they feel like to me! Making small talk with people you hardly know, may never see again, and honestly don't really care about so truly don't care to hear the mundane details of their daily life. I always feel like it's such a waste of precious time when I would so much rather be in my home surrounded by the things I do love and care about.
Speaking of which, challenging myself with animal stuff is the thing that keeps me getting up in the morning and makes me dance with excitement and giggle with joy. When I came home last night and noticed that one of my seahorses had given birth in my absence I was elated and spent hours staring into the tank, while also being sad I wasn't there to watch him give birth. And when I rescue a newborn bird or squirrel? The challenge and victory of watching them grow and thrive is the most wonderful feeling that keeps me so glad to be a part of this amazing world.
Thanks to all for sharing, and for the reminder to accept and be patient with myself. I was still lying in bed trying to sleep when I heard the morning birds singing. No idea why I can't sleep even though my body is tired, but I will accept that this too shall pass.
Sue